Female Orgasm (adult content)

First I’d have to start by defining “Love Making” in my own language. “Love making is an art, the lady is the canvas and the man the painter. If painted properly and with care, you end up with a master piece that can last as long as the Mona Lisa”. I’m so tired of hearing inexperienced guys come in the bar or wherever, and brag about how they made her want more only to eavesdrop on the conversation and I just feel sorry for the Lady. Guys I’m not saying you are not giving your woman what she needs or how she wants it, I’m just going to say the truth and if you feel it’s directed to you then just learn from what I’d explain here. It is said that 85 percent of African women go through their life time without having an orgasm just because most African men would skip foreplay, oral sex to just sex.

Now I got the guys thinking and some cocky guys saying hell no I get her to cum all the time. Okay I have heard so many guys brag and say I did it so fast, she was moaning and came, she told me she came too, and I saw so much wet stuff there. Huh? Is that your definition? Then I’m really really sorry she doesn’t want to hurt your ego. When a woman gets to have an Orgasm you will know if you are experienced, it is the dumbest thing to ask your woman “baby did you cum”? As her man you have to know when she did and how to get her there. Just because your woman is really wet doesn’t mean she just came, it means she is aroused and wants you to perform your duty as her man. Guys come on! don’t think that you stick a finger or two for 15 seconds pinch her nipples for 9 seconds suck on her breast 6 seconds and the penetrate her will make her have an orgasm. That’s just being plain selfish and uncaring.

A woman’s orgasm is different from we guys who could afford to burst a nut just by watching porn, a woman’s orgasm has to be built up to the point she can’t take it no more and explodes with pleasure. For the nerds a lady’s orgasm is like charging a dead phone to the point it’s full and the light indicators start going off with an alarm. Now I know some guys reading will say what the hell are you feeling like?

Okay guys, if your girl just had an orgasm she would not have the strength to stand up and dress up 15 seconds after you think she just came and say “I’m going home”. When a woman reaches her orgasm, her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase. Tension builds within her pelvis, muscles contract throughout her body especially in the vagina which is accompanied with series of contractions. Contractions also occur in the uterus, rectum and pelvic floor. Occasional speaking in tongues you never heard, Grabbing of your sheets, Toe curling up like she about to have mad cramps or mild stroke, Scratches on your back, Love marks from her biting your arm because she doesn’t want to scream out loud. She ends up having a good sleep afterwards. Yeah trust me a lot goes on.

Now the good guys who care about their woman are ready to ask me, hey how do we achieve all these in bed? It’s simple son. Good communication in the bedroom with your woman will help you a lot; don’t assume that screwing your finger in her or finger banging her here and there like you are searching for coins in vagina is fun to her. Ask her how she wants her body touched, ask her how hard she wants her nipples bitten, sucked, licked or pinched because it’s different strokes for different folks after all, ask her how to play with her clitoris and how she wants it licked, nibbled, eaten etc. when you go down on her. Don’t just assume. A woman’s body differs from the long shaft in our boxers.

For all those guys that just skip foreplay and head to sex, I’m really sorry for you because when she comes in contact to the real deal, you would be an ex soon. 75 percent of women say they achieve orgasm via oral sex almost every time it is done well. Dudes don’t be selfish and expect her to give you a blow job when you not ready to down and eat the hell out of her pum pum and even when you do, you just go down and give it 5 licks and you are up. 5 licks!!!??? Come on son, spend some quality time down there and give her the best oral sex she ever had, occasionally look up and watch her flap her legs around like butterflies and see the gyration of her waste from so much pleasure, then when she gets an orgasm you can have a personal experience of what a vagina does when she has an orgasm because I am not going to tell you that.

Also put a little swag in your sex life. Make it so nice she wants to be by your place tomorrow. Guys always have a romantic atmosphere, a good flow of natural lubrication so that the delicate female parts don’t get sore, never forget to stimulate her clitoris no matter what you doing. Please bear in mind and forget whatever you guys think or how big you think you packing. Sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman’s clitoris and nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.

So even if you are having sexual intercourse with your woman, reach out and stimulate her clitoris and your other hand should get busy on her breast or grabbing some of those her lovely curves. Don’t just ignore her body; work with every part that is exposed and don’t bore the crap out of her.

Remember these:

Don’t be in a rush because it’s a turn on for women if they see you know what you are doing

Don’t be too demanding – Love making is not an Olympic event

Always ask her what she wants but please don’t bore her out with questions. Just shut up and drive

Give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you make an approach to her sexual area

Take things gently and see what she wants

Use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris and learn how she masturbates because women have a specific way they stroke their clits just like every guy here knows how you jerk off his Johnny boy better. You learn from the owner just like we want to teach them how to hold yours.

Always remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm weather by mouth or stroking it with your finger. So guys pop in some Marvin Gaye set the mode right and stop starving your woman an Orgasm. Please practice safe sex or stick to one sexual partner AIDS is real.

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